Sunday, June 20, 2010

Chua Ky Quang - Center for Disabled Orphans



We learned, after visiting many different temples, that disabled or special needs orphans are sent either back to the government or to certain temples such as Chùa Kỳ Quang at 154/4a Lê Hoàng Phái, P.17, Q.Gò Vấp. It was raining when we arrived at the temple, and we hurried inside, where we met the Thượng tọa (Venerable) Thích Thiện Binh. He told us that there are at least 250 orphans living in the temple. Thượng tọa Thích Thiện Chiếu founded the temple’s orphanage, when he found some blind children begging for food on the street. As time went by, more orphans came asking for shelter. In 1994, the government permitted the temple to accept and care for disabled children at its base. As the temple’s reputation grew, parents began to leave their babies at its gates, which is why so many children are in this one orphanage. Although they did not expect any donations from visitors, we donated money to them and any non-government/foreign-run charities that we visited, to show respect for leaders who have honorably dedicated their patience and time to these unfortunate children.

We had to walk through puddles of water before getting to the rooms of the disabled children. We did not expect to witness the wide range of disabilities that these children have: cerebral palsy, mental retardation, deformity, blindness, muteness, deafness, HIV, AIDS. There are 40 who are affected by Agent Orange, 110 blind, mute and deaf children, and the rest have cerebral palsy and/or deformities. There are about 20 children who are unaffected by these diseases and are put in a classroom and who sang welcoming songs to us when we stopped by.

When we entered the first room, we were immediately approached by a mentally-challenged boy who pulled us around to show us other younger sleeping disabled children, while laughing and stuttering words that we could not understand and pulling us in for hugs. A volunteer in the room told us that he was a boy who had been placed there at birth. A mute girl on a wheelchair kept calling us and showing us around the temple. There were rooms full of babies who were being taken care of by older girls and women. Despite its poor conditions, many local Vietnamese volunteers have come to stay in the temple and take care of many disabled children. They told us that they volunteered to take care of these children because they lost their own children or offered their lives to Buddha instead. It was a pleasant surprise to meet foreign students who came to play, teach, and help feed these children at the temple. Our study tour students will definitely be able to provide a helping hand to these disabled children when they come next year.

3 comments:

  1. Interesting how foreign students are eager to help these children

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  2. please post information on how people can donate to support. thank you.

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    1. I am sorry, but I have volunteered at this exact orphanage in the past. It was an amazing experience. While I was there I felt compelled to donate and I went out and bought a bunch of things for the sweet kiddos and everything disappeared after a week. I saw a nurse put some of the toys in her own purse. I found through being there that they get TONS of visitors daily and they are all handing out donations. This place gets PLENTY I feel that sometimes the nurses "hide" or "get rid" of donations simply to get even more. It seemed that they wanted the kids to look like they were a in a sad situation so that they received more donations. Trust me, this place is getting plenty. I would suggest people that WANT to donate, to research and go somewhere and spend some time before they donate hard earned money to anything they simply have never experienced themselves. I was sad like everyone else, felt sorry for the kids like everyone else but these kids were being used for more donations, if that makes sense to anyone. I was just there last year. It is something that needs to be pointed out or it is never going to change.

      -Good things I saw:
      -The kids were fed everyday
      -They were always in clean clothes.
      -A lot of money and donations come in ALL THE TIME (I was there almost a month)

      Bad things:
      -New Toys people brought (including mine, simply disappeared with hours or days)
      -Where is all the money going, because they DO get a lot
      -After I left I started doing research about this specific orphanage, and they are no only getting daily donations in person but they seem to have a Facebook page, and other things on the web asking for donations. Also, while I was there, another lady was there visiting her "sponsored" child from some online foundation too.

      These kids actually just need regular volunteers willing to spend some time with them and to love them. They have what they need and other things are being taken away so they can basically be "used" to get more and more things out of people that feel sorry for them. I was simply amazed at the kiddos though, they are so smart and completely selfless. Their personalities despite what is going on was simply amazing. I hope to one ay go back and visit THE KIDS, but I think it is also important to raise awareness for those who never know what is going on and simply want to just give their cash away to feel good about doing something, when it is not really helping and you are just losing your money. Hope this helps. Meeting these kids and witnessing this made me feel like I need to step in and raise awareness for this and other causes.

      You can choose to believe me or not but I have been teaching and working with children for over 10 years and my passion is children. I want to do all I can to protect them too!

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